Saturday, July 05, 2003
And an FYI about the post stating “They are asking for suggestions for who to moderate, this would be a chance to put some fresh blood in that position. I'd like to see a neutral party there (someone like Brenda, Kelli, Cindy (both of them), or many of the others who have been here and there and at all boards, not someone who is partial to one board over the other).” For the record I HAVE been to ALL boards – maybe I wasn’t an active poster (and do you really blame me after all had settled?) and I wasn’t particularly “PARTIAL” to any board but seeing how I must have been such a crappy leader based on vague comments here and there I am more then happy to hand the reigns over to ANYONE else….
And regarding “missed the behind the scenes stuff too until it was brought up here by the 'behind the sceners' I guess.” That is absolutely right…. There was NOOO behind the scenes stuff atleast not anything that I was involved in…. after the original “discussions” regarding a new board I let it go, my ass is still healing…. I held no ill will and I did my best to move on, I lurked to keep up w/the ladies I THOUGHT were my friends and responded to them via email or IM when I could…. So if there is/was any thing going on “behind the scenes” perhaps those of you that mentioned it and/or were involved need to speak up since you seem to know more then others…
Now as for the “accusations” and denial of such…. Well you can come to your conclusions, perhaps I wasn’t directly accused but there WAS an accusation made..
From: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
To: Leslie
Sent: 7/1/03 6:04 AM
Subject: RE: Hello????
I never said I wasn't going to start a new board and yes I was gonna
wait til the end of the summer but a few women kept asking for a new
place so I caved in.... And that new board was started on Saturday not
just yesterday..... You can believe what you want and think what you
want but I had nothing to do w/your board... I went there, read the
posts and occasionally contacted one of the ladies regarding a post but
that is it... I mean you no harm or ill will... Perhaps you need to
contact whomever controls 54 - I hope you get some answers... Gotta
run... TTFN
>> -----Original Message-----
> From: Leslie
> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 5:03 AM
> To: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
> Subject: Re: Hello????
>
> I DID NOT delete the forum, someone else did. How odd that it all happened
> on the day that you started a new board? I thought that you weren't going
> to do that? You said that you were going to just come over at the end of
> the summer...what happened to that?
>
> This is all just very fishy!
>
> To: Leslie
> Sent: Monday, June 30, 2003 9:04 PM
> Subject: RE: Hello????
>
>
> Got your reply on ATT but now it's acting up so please use this email.... I
> don't what you are talking about... I haven't been on computer for most of
> the afternoon between 2 and 8:30 and only briefly then before I rested for
> work.. then recently I went to check 54 and it says it's been deleted by
> forum owner.... I am not looking for a fight - I am so done and over
> w/that... just wondered what was up....
>
----- Original Message -----
From: Leslie
To: devndilsmom@worldnet.att.net
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 2:44 AM
Subject: what?
what do you want? are you trying to gloat or something?
I don't find what happened the least bit amusing. Maybe YOU didn't do it but I am sure you know who did. How very clever, having a AOL person doing it so that I can't tell who did it. I didn't give you all that much credit for brains! I do know it was an east coast person so that narrows it down.
Ciao!
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 1:29 AM
> To: Leslie
> Subject: Hello????
> Importance: High
>
>
> Hey are you around???? I don't have aim at work but my email works....
You know - it's not enough I have a controlling, emotionally/verbally abusive alcoholic husband, 2 ADHD (1 also bipolar) children and a semi stressful schedule/job duties but I just NEED all this other drama – NOT!!!
I am sure that I am burning bridges here and some of you will no longer like me, hate me, curse me, be pissed off, avoid me like the plague, etc… but GET OVER IT, I am!!!! Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, even me… 1st - these are my FEELINGS/THOUGHTS - I am entitled to them and I have every right to voice them… Note that I have put them HERE and not brought them to ANY board and attempted to taint things there… AND as my feelings and thoughts I would have thought that I could w/o hesitation be able to voice them w/o people I thought were my friends without being crucified and admonished… 2nd - All of this is just PETTY crap and we ALL have more important and better things to deal w/in our lives I am sure… For over 4 yrs the Oct 99 group has been a huge part of my world and I have made what I consider to be friends with some wonderful ladies thru it… I would like to have those friendships blossom and grow but for now I really needed to purge myself… I hold WAY WAY too much in regarding various aspects of my life and it just eats away and affects my health and happiness ---- I am not going to allow myself to do that anymore…
And that folks, as they say, is “the rest of the story”… So be sure to share w/all your friends, keep on coming back - we are just a ton of laughs around here... Til next time…
And regarding “missed the behind the scenes stuff too until it was brought up here by the 'behind the sceners' I guess.” That is absolutely right…. There was NOOO behind the scenes stuff atleast not anything that I was involved in…. after the original “discussions” regarding a new board I let it go, my ass is still healing…. I held no ill will and I did my best to move on, I lurked to keep up w/the ladies I THOUGHT were my friends and responded to them via email or IM when I could…. So if there is/was any thing going on “behind the scenes” perhaps those of you that mentioned it and/or were involved need to speak up since you seem to know more then others…
Now as for the “accusations” and denial of such…. Well you can come to your conclusions, perhaps I wasn’t directly accused but there WAS an accusation made..
From: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
To: Leslie
Sent: 7/1/03 6:04 AM
Subject: RE: Hello????
I never said I wasn't going to start a new board and yes I was gonna
wait til the end of the summer but a few women kept asking for a new
place so I caved in.... And that new board was started on Saturday not
just yesterday..... You can believe what you want and think what you
want but I had nothing to do w/your board... I went there, read the
posts and occasionally contacted one of the ladies regarding a post but
that is it... I mean you no harm or ill will... Perhaps you need to
contact whomever controls 54 - I hope you get some answers... Gotta
run... TTFN
>> -----Original Message-----
> From: Leslie
> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 5:03 AM
> To: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
> Subject: Re: Hello????
>
> I DID NOT delete the forum, someone else did. How odd that it all happened
> on the day that you started a new board? I thought that you weren't going
> to do that? You said that you were going to just come over at the end of
> the summer...what happened to that?
>
> This is all just very fishy!
>
> To: Leslie
> Sent: Monday, June 30, 2003 9:04 PM
> Subject: RE: Hello????
>
>
> Got your reply on ATT but now it's acting up so please use this email.... I
> don't what you are talking about... I haven't been on computer for most of
> the afternoon between 2 and 8:30 and only briefly then before I rested for
> work.. then recently I went to check 54 and it says it's been deleted by
> forum owner.... I am not looking for a fight - I am so done and over
> w/that... just wondered what was up....
>
----- Original Message -----
From: Leslie
To: devndilsmom@worldnet.att.net
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 2:44 AM
Subject: what?
what do you want? are you trying to gloat or something?
I don't find what happened the least bit amusing. Maybe YOU didn't do it but I am sure you know who did. How very clever, having a AOL person doing it so that I can't tell who did it. I didn't give you all that much credit for brains! I do know it was an east coast person so that narrows it down.
Ciao!
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Gunter, Angeline W CECOM ACQ
> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2003 1:29 AM
> To: Leslie
> Subject: Hello????
> Importance: High
>
>
> Hey are you around???? I don't have aim at work but my email works....
You know - it's not enough I have a controlling, emotionally/verbally abusive alcoholic husband, 2 ADHD (1 also bipolar) children and a semi stressful schedule/job duties but I just NEED all this other drama – NOT!!!
I am sure that I am burning bridges here and some of you will no longer like me, hate me, curse me, be pissed off, avoid me like the plague, etc… but GET OVER IT, I am!!!! Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, even me… 1st - these are my FEELINGS/THOUGHTS - I am entitled to them and I have every right to voice them… Note that I have put them HERE and not brought them to ANY board and attempted to taint things there… AND as my feelings and thoughts I would have thought that I could w/o hesitation be able to voice them w/o people I thought were my friends without being crucified and admonished… 2nd - All of this is just PETTY crap and we ALL have more important and better things to deal w/in our lives I am sure… For over 4 yrs the Oct 99 group has been a huge part of my world and I have made what I consider to be friends with some wonderful ladies thru it… I would like to have those friendships blossom and grow but for now I really needed to purge myself… I hold WAY WAY too much in regarding various aspects of my life and it just eats away and affects my health and happiness ---- I am not going to allow myself to do that anymore…
And that folks, as they say, is “the rest of the story”… So be sure to share w/all your friends, keep on coming back - we are just a ton of laughs around here... Til next time…
